Monday, November 13, 2006

rules of relationships

Relationship Rules

  1. If someone wants you, nothing can keep them away. If he/she doesn’t want you, nothing can make them stay.
  2. Stop making excuses for a man/woman and his/her behavior.
  3. Allowing your intuition (or spirit)) to save you from heartache.
  4. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant ot be.
  5. Slower is better.
  6. Never live your life for a man/woman before you find what makes you truly happy.
  7. If a relationship ends becaue your partner was not treating you as you deserve, then HECK NO(!) you can’t “be friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistread a freind.
  8. Don’t settle.
  9. If you feel like they are stringing you along, then they probably are.
  10. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better”. You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
  11. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
  12. Always have your own set of friends separate from theirs.
  13. Maintain boundaries in how your parnter treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
  14. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
  15. You cannot change anyone’s behaviors. Change comes from within.
  16. Don’t EVER make them feel they are more important than you.. even if she/he has more education or a better job.
  17. Never let someone define who you are.
  18. Never borrow someone eles’e parther;
  19. If she/he cheated with you, she’ll/he’ll cheat on you.
  20. A person will only treat you the way you ALLOW them to treat you.
  21. All men are NOT dogs / All women are NOT bitches.
  22. You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is a two way street.
  23. You need time to heal between relationships.. there is nothing cute about baaggage... deal with your issues before pursuin a new relationship.
  24. You should never look for someone to complete you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals.. look for someone complimentary.. not supplementary.
  25. Dating is fun... even if she/he doesn’t turn out to be mrs. or mr. right

" They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, and an entire life to forget them. "


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